sharon j, on 2022-November-04, 17:26, said:
Thank you, Ken. I will have to make an effort to listen to his breathing at night. LOL That won't be easy for me. I'm usually dead to the world when my head hits the pillow.
I guess I could maybe fib about it and see if he will see his doctor about it. He needs to stay around longer than me for sure.
Thanks again.
Maybe this? As a present to you (Christmas, birthday, or just a present) he gets checked out by a doc. Maybe you are wrong, maybe you have misread the situation, but whether right or wrong you are worried, and simply as a gift to you he could get checked out. It sounds as if you could not imagine a finer gift.
Although my first seventy years were not totally free of medical issues, they very largely were and so I just found it really tough to believe that I had anything seriously wrong with me. Now I will be 84 in January and it is much easier to think "Hey, maybe I need to get this whatever it is checked out". I don't plan on dying tomorrow or next week or next year, but I am much more aware of life having an endpoint. It's a transition in thinking. My older daughter was here for a visit the other day and she was authentically pleased by my optimistic outlook. But realism also comes into play. I can be thankful for the past, enjoy the present, be optimistic about the future, and still realize that I should not be making any twenty-year plans.
Again, good luck. It's just a fact of online conversations that we do not really know each other, but I wish you and your husband the best.